Yes, someone else probably does have it worse than you, but it’s not a contest. Your pain is valid, just as their pain is.
There is, indeed, a right way to think: think for yourself. Make the best decisions you can with the information you have at the time….
I am complicated. I have mixed emotions. I have confusing medical situations going on. I am not easy. But I am worth it.
Miracles are happening all around us all the time; watch for them. It’s easy to miss them if you aren’t attentive.