Believe your eyes; don’t let people tell you that you don’t see what you know you are seeing.
Be aware of what is going on. Pick and choose what you will get involved in, but be aware of all of it.
Your actions have consequences, some intended, some not. You do get to make your own decisions, but you will have to live with the consequences…
A “lessons learned” session can be productive. It is important to figure out why something happened, so it doesn’t happen again. I don’t care whose…
If you need rest, get rest. There is nothing wrong with taking a break and regrouping before you continue.