“I am the way I am, and people just have to get used to it. I can’t (or won’t) change.” Is that how you feel? While I agree that you shouldn’t change for other people, I also think that sometimes you need to take a look at yourself and make a decision about whether or not you want to change for yourself. And one question to ask yourself to help you decide is “How is that working out for you?” Maybe things are working out just fine, and going just the way you want them to, so you see no reason to change. But if things aren’t going the way you want them to, maybe it is time to look and see if there is a need for you to change – for you.