Be thankful for everything.  If it’s what you wanted, that’s great.  And if it’s not, maybe it’s what you need to get through to get to what you want.  Or maybe it’s what you need to realize that what you thought you wanted isn’t really what you want at all.  There is a reason for everything – and it’s not always what you think.  Perspective is everything, and just maybe things will become clear later.  For now, try to find gratitude for some aspect of what is happening now.