How do you feel about making decisions? If you’re like most people, some are probably easy and require little thought, while others may feel so big and heavy that making a choice feels like an Olympic event. While we never claim to have the answers, it is our hope that this series of bliss will cause you to pause and consider your process and maybe even give you a helpful way to think about things. Please feel free to weigh in; we love comments.

Some decisions that need to be made are those that come attached to another person asking something of you. Remember these words: “I’d like a moment to check on a few things,” and “I’ll get back to you as soon as I know more.” Give yourself the time and space to think things through. Then really do get back to them with a decision. P.S. It’s okay to say “No.”