Empowering language is important, and I know that.  And, as I am human, I still sometimes say things like “I can’t do that.”  So I have come up with a new favorite word to add to my sentence when I catch myself talking like that.  I invite you to try adding “YET” to your sentence, and see if it changes the way you feel about things. “I can’t do that YET.”  Personally, I like it.  It makes me feel like I am talking about something that I have not yet mastered, but will.  It may work for some of you – go ahead, try it.