Choose to be what you want to be. The choice is truly yours, but you have to make it and believe it. Get out of that victim mentality and choose what you want. But don’t forget that just choosing something isn’t going to magically give it to you – you still need to work for it. So choose something, and then choose to do the things that are going to make it happen. That may mean going back to school, or spending more time with your family and friends – whatever it means, do it consciously and with your goal in mind.