Listen with your heart…when you ask someone how they are and they say “fine” or “okay,” listen closely to see if there is something behind that. Sometimes people say “fine” and they mean fine. Sometimes people say “fine” and they mean, “if only I had someone to talk to.” But do ask; don’t assume. Maybe you are that person they can talk to, and maybe you aren’t. Listen with your heart and you may hear the difference.