You may not get to decide what happens to you today, or any day. And you DO get to decide how you will react to it. DON’T take it personally – it is very seldom about you. DO note it, learn whatever lesson there is for you to learn, and move on with humor and grace. Pay attention to what is happening, and don’t be attached to it. Love it, hate it, or be indifferent to it, and know that it will change, if not sooner, then later. And remember, your reaction is your choice – be sure to make it. Because if you don’t someone is sure to make it for you.