You do not have to follow anyone else’s schedule for your life. Some people are married by 22; others are married when they are 40; some never marry. Some people go to college right after high school; some go years later; some never go at all. Some have adventures when they are young; some have adventures when they are older; some have adventures all the time. It’s okay to not do things in the same time frame as anyone else. Listen to yourself, and follow your own schedule.