I am learning to let go and move on. Letting go isn’t always easy, but for me it seems to be necessary. Sometimes part of letting go is forgiving – people who did or said something on purpose, people who were clueless when they said or did something, myself. I am realizing more and more that forgiving isn’t for other people – it is for me. I can’t move on until everything is done, and sometimes everything is not done until the forgiveness happens. I can argue with myself about other people ‘deserving’ forgiveness, but since it really is about me needing to move on, it doesn’t matter.