People (including me) often tell you to be vulnerable. There are many good reasons for this. And I am here today to tell you that it is important that you decide with whom you wish to share your vulnerability. While second chances always seem to be a good thing, if someone has hurt you in the past, make a conscious decision about whether or not you want to afford them a second chance to hurt you again. Only you can make that decision. There are many people who will rise to the occasion and treat you and your vulnerability with the respect you deserve. There are also people out there who just don’t understand how their actions affect you, and even some who will knowingly use your vulnerability against you. Make your decisions wisely.