Use comparison for the good it can bring

What works for one will not necessarily work for all. So if you are looking for ideas of things to try, go ahead and see what others are doing. Don’t assume that something that worked for them will work for you. Try something new out for a while, and then take an honest look at the results. If it worked for you, keep doing it. If it didn’t work for you, try something else. But don’t beat yourself up if it didn’t work for you. That doesn’t make you bad and them good, or vice versa; it makes you different. Use comparison for the good it can bring, not to tear down yourself or others.