Don’t change who and what you are so that others will like and accept you more. The truth is that most people want to know the real you, not the you who is put out there for public consumption. Or maybe the truth is that the people who belong to your tribes want to know the real you, and they are the people you want to find, not the people who want you to be something you’re not. So be clear with yourself on who and what you are, and it will become clear to others.