You get to decide – choose wisely. Is it worth having that disagreement? Then disagree, and state your point with authority. Is it time to make a stand? Then make it with conviction, and be sure no one is confused as to what you think. And if it is NOT important to make that stand or have that disagreement right now, then let it go. There is a time and a place for everything, and in your life YOU get to decide when that is. Be sure that you make those decisions wisely.