I have found it not so hard to forgive people since I have realized that forgiving someone does not mean that I have to let them back into my life. There are people I have honestly forgiven for something, but who I no longer want in my life, and that’s okay. It is my life; I get to choose who is in it. I try to remain vulnerable; that does not mean people can take advantage of that vulnerability at will. I do try to give people multiple chances, without being stupid about it. I do still have moments when I feel like I should give someone another chance, and then I think: another chance for what? I am both human and vulnerable and I do the best I can.