It just happened again. I have been thinking about contacting an old friend I haven’t seen for a while to get together, and I found her obituary in this morning’s paper. Now it’s too late. My first reaction is to beat myself up for not doing what I meant to do, what I wanted to do. And I think I will choose to go with my second reaction, which is to stop putting off things that I really do want to do – like call old friends. People say that life has a way of interfering with your intentions; in fact, I say that sometimes. So maybe now I will finally realize that my intentions ARE life. Life is about honoring my intentions; life is about connecting with my friends when I think of them. I can live my life in a coulda, shoulda, woulda land of regrets, or I can live my life without regrets and just do it now. So don’t find yourself in this position of wishing you had, go ahead and do it now!