Find the place and the people who make you feel safe, who accept you the way you are and let you feel the way you feel. And if you can’t find that place, then create it, and populate it with the people who love and accept you. It doesn’t matter where that place is or who those people are. It doesn’t matter if the place is static or moves around (maybe it’s where ever the people gather). It doesn’t matter if the people are the ones you think “should” be in that group, or if they are a rag-tag collection of people you have picked up along the way. You are the creator of your own life – all of it – so make it what you want and need it to be.