Let go of how you thought things would be
It is so hard to let go of how you thought things would be, and embrace what is. It is okay to rail against the unfairness of it all; it is okay to feel that this is not how things were supposed to be when you got old. And in the end, reality must be embraced because what else are you going to do if you do not want to live in the past. Your path changes, and so must your expectations and your dreams.