Make yourself happy

Make yourself happy; don’t rely on someone else to do it. You are the one who knows what you need when. If flowers will make you happy right now, get yourself some. It’s lovely when someone else does something that makes you happy, but don’t rely on it. It is your job to take care of yourself, and their job to take care of themselves. When someone else makes you happy, enjoy it for what it is; don’t become dependent on it.