Do you look around and see people with more things than you have, doing better than you are, living happier lives, and not having done any of the work that you are doing to be a better person and make a better world? If this is happening to you, then I suggest that you stop looking around and passing judgment. You don’t know what is going on in anyone else’s life, or what they have gone through to get to where they are. You don’t know what is in anyone else’s heart. You are not the spiritual cop – it is not your job to say who is and who is not doing “it” right – whatever “it” is. No good ever comes of comparing yourself to others. There will always be people doing better than you, and people doing worse. Mind your business, do what you know is important for you to do, and be willing to help when asked.