When you are with someone, really be with them. Put your phone away, stop thinking about everything else you have to do and that fight you had with your partner; really be present with the person you are with. I know we are all stretched thin; we have too much to do and not enough time to do it in. It would be nice if you had a couple hours to spend with a friend, and that just isn’t always possible. And even a 10 minute visit can prove to be enough if you are really there when you are there. Your undivided attention and your presence are the best gifts that you can give to a friend.