You can hope and pray things are going to change, you can wish with all your might, but sometimes you actually have to be the power behind that change. You have to do something that you hope will allow that change to happen. And it’s not always easy, and you might feel like an ogre doing it. And it’s good to realize that you can’t make a change happen for someone else. You can only make a change for yourself that may allow a change to happen for the other person. Be strong, do what you do in love and with the best of intentions, and be that catalyst.