Let it go – that need to be in control, that desire for things to stay the same, the need to understand everything – just let it go! You don’t really have control over anything, things always change, and you don’t always get to understand what is happening. But here’s the thing – if you can let go of the desire for these things, you may be in a better position to actually enjoy and understand what is happening. Maybe you will see that not being in control sometimes is a good thing. And often change is for the better. And sometimes understanding happens after the fact.