My choices are my choices. I can seek out advice and guidance, and in the end I get to make my choices on my own. And your choices are yours alone to make, and none of my business. If you ask, I am there with help and advice – none of which you are obligated to take. I may not understand your choices, nor you mine, and that does not matter. We each make our own choices, and though it may not always feel like it, that is a good thing.