Are you passing judgment on others?
Are they making decisions that you don’t agree with? Could it be that you just don’t understand them? It’s not up to you to agree or not agree with the decisions of others. You don’t even have to understand them. There may be a million reasons that someone has made the decision they made, and you aren’t entitled to know any of them. If they want to share that information with you, that is up to them. In the meantime, why don’t you just cut them a little slack and know that you don’t know everything that is behind the decision they made. And then you can hope that they do the same for you.